I think my condo is the new 'bachelorette' type pad.
It makes men confused and say things that they haven’t said before.
Since I’ve moved in, I’ve had three different men articulate their love and passion for me. Each time its been fellas that I’ve known and hung out plutonically for years with, and each time its thrown me for a loop.
I think they look around and the smashing black, white and red theme, and say, hey this girl has a good eye for home décor, or they taste my mildly, (on its way to becoming, really delicious meals,) and think, hey now, this girl has a sweet hand….(or at least will have one soon enough,) with a bit of practice….or maybe they like the area, I don’t know, but somehow, a few hours in and they start…..…
First it’s a confession to how they’ve always had a crush on me….riiighhtt…that’s why its taken you seven years to tell me
Then it’s the your amazing and hot…why don’t you have a boyfriend???
Then it’s the…..I’m crazy about you and if you want we can have a go at this…
Or as was the case yesterday, a sudden, un prepared lean in……
How do you tell someone, whom you really value as a friend, that your just not into them in that way??