All my boyfriends have cheated on me.
That’s a statement I would refrain from making on the first date. And the second and the third, because let’s face it, there’s the warning siren that should accompany that statement, which says, I come with baggage, large, badly wrapped baggage.
The thing is it seems like most men I encounter have a wandering eye. Not just men I’m dating, have dated, or could date….all men. Even the good and sweet ones that got married early to good, sexy women, who love them inspite of their questionable sense of dress, and music tastes. Not all cheat, but all do develop some sort of fantasy/obsession with women. I think it’s the, ‘I can’t touch thing,’ that makes them obsess about it. They look around and suddenly women they would never have been attracted to before are hot…super dooper hot. And they can’t have….so they want.
My male friends seem to think that women are the same.
If that’s true, and all over the world there exists two people in committed relationships crazily eyeing everything that passes them by, so then the question is: why do people get married?
Is it worth the risk? Honestly is any one faithful anymore? Is there someone out there, so fascinated and in love with someone that the thought of even looking lustfully (notice the difference from appreciating) abhors them to no end?? (Besides Marika ofcourse….)